Wondering if a guy has a thing for you? (2024)

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How do you test if a guy is right for you? ›

Usually, when a man has a crush on you he will make you a priority in his life. He will go out of his way to help you or spend time with you. He will start paying attention to your interests in an effort to know more about you. He might even act nervous or show off around you.

Guys typically scan your body if they think you're attractive or they're trying to flirt with you. He might also be checking you out because he's too shy to approach you. Watch for other flirtatious body language signals, like prolonged eye contact or leaning in toward you.

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If he's affectionate, pays attention to you, and puts effort into the relationship, you might be overthinking the situation. If he frequently cancels plans with no explanation or apology, ignores you, and doesn't initiate conversations, he might be losing interest.

If he really likes you, then he'll find no need to talk to other people in a flirtatious way. Sure, he can still talk to them and he doesn't have to ignore everyone but you, but if you can tell from the way he talks to other people that he wants more from them than just friendship, then he may be playing you.

“If the person you are seeing never wants to make proper plans with you and only reaches out at random, spontaneous times, it's probably a sign that you're in the fling category,” says Bregman. Real relationship: Your partner asks you to go on real dates or is thrilled if you plan a day or night out together.

How do you test a guy's trust? ›

Finally, the most effective way to know if your boyfriend is loyal is through open, honest conversation. If you have doubts, express them to your partner in a non-accusatory manner. A loyal boyfriend will understand your concerns and work with you to build a stronger, more trusting relationship.

Whether he's responding to text messages in a super timely manner, signing up for tasks like helping you move, or making sure you know that he's around if you need anything at all, making time for you is one big sign to make note of.

Be open and honest with each other.

If you don't prioritize him or you constantly cancel plans, he'll be much less likely to admit that he likes you. Show him that you like him with your actions. Be a good listener, too. When he talks, make eye contact with him and nod along so he knows you're listening.

Feeling of completeness: When you're with them, you feel a sense of completeness. Synchronicities: You notice frequent synchronicities or meaningful coincidences when thinking about them. Intuitive nudges: You get intuitive feelings that they're the right person for you.

A few telltale signs you've found a soulmate include a feeling of instant recognition and knowing each other, being inexplicably drawn to each other, and accepting who the other person is in totality.

Spark or not, if you're with someone who stifles you, makes you feel like you have to censor yourself, or causes you to overthink your words and actions, it is not a true partnership.