SpanishLearners Ask: What’s the Difference Between Tú, Usted, and Vos?
Learning Spanish subject pronouns is no easy feat, especially when we discover that there arethree different versionsof the second person singular: tú, usted, andvos.
That means there arethree different waysto say “you”in Spanish, and infinite ways to find ourselves in embarrassing (or even offensive) situations when it comes to addressing people in Spanish.
Already feel lost? Don’t worry, we’ve broken down everything you need to get started navigating these pronouns.
- Definition of Spanish Subject Pronouns
- The Difference Between Tú, Usted, and Vos
- Where the Pronoun Vos Comes From
- Which Countries Use Vos vs. Tú
- How to Conjugate Vos in Spanish
- When to Stop Using Usted and Start Using Tú / Vos
Let’s start unpacking these pronouns!
What Are Subject Pronouns?
Subject pronouns are the words that indicate who or what is carrying out the action of a verb:
- yo(I)
- tú(you)
- vos(you)
- ella(she)
- él(he)
- ustedes(you plural)
- vosotros / vosotras(you plural)
- usted(you formal)
- nosotros / nosotras(we)
- ellos / ellas(they)
As you see,tú,vos, andustedare all different ways to address a person.
Tú, Usted, Vos – So What’s the Difference?
The easy answer isformality.
Thegeneral ruleis thattúandvosareinformalandustedisformal.
Túandvosare generally used for addressing:
- Friends
- Family
- Peers
- Equals
- Children
- Pets (for all the animal lovers that find themselves talking to their pets)
Usted is the formal version of “you”, used when addressing:
- Elders
- Professionals
- Strangers (or people with whom you’re not familiar)
- Doctors
- Bosses
- Teachers
- Parents (rarely)
Wait a minute. Where does the pronounvoscome from, and why didn’t I see it in my Spanish textbook?
What is Vos in Spanish?
In the Americas,vosis an informal “you” like tú. It originated in the 1500s when the Spanish colonized Latin America and imposed a strict hierarchy of social classes. The indigenous people referred to members of the Spanish nobility as vuestra merced, meaning “your grace”. This term evolved to vuasted, later shortened to vos.
The usage ofvosis also called thevoseoorvoseo americano.
More on Vos
Although it is almost non-existent today in Spain,voscan be found in literary works, dating as far back as the late 18th century.
Today, most teachers of either Castilian or Mexican Spanish don’t covervos,seeing as it is irrelevant in their countries.
On the other hand, in some countries such as Argentina and Uruguay,vosactually replaces bothtúANDustedto form a singular formal / informal pronoun. Here, knowing how to usevosis super relevant for your survival in academia, marketing, and even politics.
And then some places use both. In parts of Central America, like El Salvador,vosmight dominateinformallybutustedis still used in aformalcontext.
Which Spanish-Speaking Countries Use Vos?
Some say that countries that predominantly usevos were geographically isolated during colonial times, whereas countries that hardly use it – Mexico, Cuba, Peru, and the DR – had better communications with Spain during colonization.
Every region has its own peculiarities and ways to employ pronouns, butgenerally, the breakdown ofvoseoby country is the following:
| Countries where vosis predominant: | Countries where bothvosandtú are used: | Countries wheretú is primarily used. |
| Argentina, Uruguay, Paraguay, El Salvador, Guatemala, Honduras, Nicaragua, Costa Rica | Bolivia, Colombia, Ecuador, Panama, Venezuela, Chile | Spain, Dominican Republic, Puerto Rico, Mexico, Peru, Cuba |
How to Conjugate Vos
Here is how to conjugatevosin Spanish, compared totú:
| Verb | Vos (Present Indicative) | Vos (Imperative) | Tú (Present Indicative) | Tú (Imperative) |
| Tener | Tenés | Tené | Tienes | Ten |
| Sentir | Sentís | Sentí | Sientes | Siente |
| Decir | Decís | Decí | Dices | Di |
| Comer | Comés | Comé | Comes | Come |
| Andar | Andás | Andá | Andas | Anda |
| Ser | Sos | Sé | Eres | Sé |
**Regional varieties might conjugate differently, i.e. Chile & Maracaibo. See regional differences below.
Regional Differences in Vos
There are endless regional discrepancies when it comes to voseoin the Americas. In the Zulia region of Venezuela and in Panama’s Azuero Peninsula,vosis conjugated asvosotros.
In Chile, on the other hand, among friends you’ll hear túused with thevosconjugation, but thevosconjugation here is even more irregular than the one listed above. Here are some examples:
- Ser – túsoi ortúerís
- Estar – túestai
- Ir – túvai
- Haber – túhai
Some theories say that this conjugation derives fromvosotros, but because Chileans hardly ever pronounce the letter “s” at the end of a word, it went from sois → soi and estais → estai. Although Chileans don’t use thevoseofor the imperative tense, they do use it in the past imperfect and future tenses.
We can’t list every regional difference in this article, so leave some of the ones you’ve encountered in the comments below!
When Do You Stop Using Usted and Start Using Tú / Vos?
This is a gentle process that has to be approached with ample emotional intelligence.
There are some older people who would be extremely offended if a young person addressed them informally, and others who would be offended by the opposite.
The best way is tolisten to how others are addressing the person. This is especially important in work environments.
When you’re unsure, always useusted. It’s your safest bet, followed bytúand lastly byvos.
If you want to ask someone if they would prefer to usetú, the verb istutear.
For example:
¿Nos podemos tutear?
“Can we call each othertú?”
¿Te puedo tutear?
“Can I use tú with you?”
And if someone screams Tutéame!, for example your boyfriend/girlfriend’s parents, then they want you to call them by their informal pronoun.
Now That We Know Each Other… ¡Tutéanos!
Once you get to know someone, you’ll most likely usetúwith them.
Know of any other regional differences in pronouns? Tell us in the comments!
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